What do you focus on when your child is upset or having a meltdown?

Do you pay attention to your child or to yourself?

Dr. Kristin Neff, autism mom and self-compassion researcher, answered this question for us…

What she said–and what the research shows–might surprise you!

Watch her brilliant 1-minute long video here…

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