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Even good parents make this mistake

Even good parents make this mistake

In my work as a parent coach, I’ve seen a very common mistake that even really insightful parents are making. It’s quick to fix and it makes all the difference. It’s about how you respond when your child complains or is upset about something. I made you a quick video...

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Connect before you correct

Connect before you correct

Our friend, Dr. Lynyetta Willis, says this to her own kids. It could be the perfect thing to say to your child before you correct their behavior or ask them to do something. (Video is 1 minute, 30 seconds.) Dr. Lynyetta Willis is a psychologist who helps frustrated...

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Keeping Kids Safe on Social Media

Keeping Kids Safe on Social Media

A mom reached out to us about her 13-year-old son… “He seems to be doing okay in school and has friends… but his primary interest is in screens, especially gaming and TikTok/YouTube watching. We’re okay with him using screens as a means to socialize and play together...

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4 questions to ask as school starts

4 questions to ask as school starts

A few moms and I were talking about our kids going back to school. We had a conversation about how to support kids without overhelping or underhelping. I shared with them the 4 questions, that I have used for years with my kids, to help with school (and even parenting...

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How to talk to kids about death and loss

How to talk to kids about death and loss

When we taught preschool, we had school pets. One of the reasons pets are useful in a classroom–besides just being loveable and cute–is they gave us a natural opportunity to talk about death and grief when the pets passed away. When a school rat or hamster died, we...

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When Your Child’s Friends Are a Bad Influence

When Your Child’s Friends Are a Bad Influence

A mom wrote to me and shared… “My 7-year-old daughter is easily influenced by her peers. If her friends are doing well that's great. She follows directions and cooperates, but if her friends do something bad, she follows them and gets into trouble. Generally speaking,...

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