Our friend, Dr. Lynyetta Willis, says this to her own kids. It could be the perfect thing to say to your child before you correct their behavior or ask them to do something. (Video is 1 minute, 30 seconds.)

Dr. Lynyetta Willis is a psychologist who helps frustrated families break free from stable misery in their parenting and partnerships so they can create the joy they crave and feel more harmony in their homes.

Take Lynyetta’s quick quiz to discover which of 3 parenting styles you use when you’re triggered.

After reading the blog today, do you want more parenting support from me and meet similar parents?

You and I can personally talk in there if you’re struggling to figure out how to talk to your child.