Happily Family Blueprint Program + Coaching
The blueprint for more joy and connection with your kids
- Have confidence and enjoy parenting!
- Set healthy limits with empathy
- Build relationship, balance, and connection without losing yourself
- Techniques based on current brain and child development research
Steps Towards Compassionate Parenting
Key principles in the Blueprint Program
CREATE WIN-WIN SOLUTIONS
The Blueprint shows you how to compassionately deal with power struggles in daily life–during meltdowns, bedtimes, mealtimes, homework, chores and more! Replace techniques that have no long-term success–like threats, punishments, rewards, and bribes–instead use agreements, limits, and win-win situations that work... for good!
SUPPORTIVE SIBLINGS AND SPOUSES
“It’s not fair!” will become a thing of the past. The Blueprint will show you how to handle sibling rivalry… from toddler to teen years. You will see when to step in and how to help multiple kids with different needs. You’ll know how to stay calm, how to handle a meltdown, hitting, or screaming. And you’ll learn how to communicate with your spouse or partner to get on the same page.
SET LIMITS AND CREATE AGREEMENTS
You will discover how to have healthy, compassionate boundaries. You will see when to set limits, when to draw a hard line, and when to be lenient.
KEEP KIDS MOTIVATED
You will see how to bring out the best in your child, to try their best, without resorting to rewards or consequences. You’ll know what to say to encourage your kids to have a growth mindset to keep them motivated.
Who We Are
Cecilia & Jason Hilkey , Creators of Happily Family

We are partners in our marriage, our teaching, and our parenting. We’ve developed a flexible system to communicate and connect with children, based on brain science and our professional experience.
We’ve worked with hundreds of children and families in person. Our online programs have reached more than 500,000 people in over 200 countries.
We have over 30 years combined experience in the education and therapy fields (plus a Masters degree in Occupational Therapy, and a minor in Neurobiology). We taught together in the same classroom, and in separate classrooms, with kids from 3-12 years old. We’ve worked with children with disabilities (birth to young adult) and their families, in homes and schools.
We have a extensive knowledge about child development, psychology, mindfulness, social and emotional intelligence, and brain science. We’ve conducted over 175 interviews of parenting and education experts, authors and researchers. We’ve presented at conferences, schools and businesses in the US and abroad.
End the Struggle... Join the Tribe
- Stuck in old behaviors and patterns? Too much fighting in your family?
- Do you feel alone in your parenting? No community around you?
- Do you keep trying harder, but it doesn’t seem to be making a difference?
SELF-PACED MODULES
$497 value
Easy to access videos, audio MP3s and cheat sheets that you can access anytime for 1 year. Each module can be streamed or downloaded as audio files.
12 GROUP COACHING SESSIONS
12 GROUP COACHING SESSIONS
Monthly LIVE group coaching calls with recordings available afterwards.
“REAL LIFE PARENTING” VIDEO EXAMPLES
$100 value
Look "over our shoulder" as we handle real situations with kids in the homes of other parents.
2 FOR 1 PARTNER BONUS
$497 value
Additional full partner membership – so your spouse/partner can participate and get questions answered, at their own pace
MASTER CLASSES
$297 value
8 parenting experts present on tough topics such as anger, partnership and self-care
TOTAL PACKAGE VALUE $2,717
MASTER CLASS VIDEOS

Dr. Daniel Siegel
Brainstorm: The Power and Purpose of the Teenage Brain

Dr. Shefali Tsabary
The Awakened Family

Dr. Ross Greene
How to Help a Child Get Off a Video Game Without Punishment

Scott Noelle
The Power of Partnership with Kids and in Relationships

Dr. Joseph Lee
How to Handle Anger

Jennifer Miller
Emotional Safety Plans

Real Comments from Real People
Hundreds of people have taken the Happily Family Blueprint Program and changed their parenting
FAQ
- You’ll get more peace in your family when you follow quick, easy steps in the Self-Paced Modules that you can access anytime for 1 year!
- Need access on-the-go? Each of the modules can be viewed or downloaded as audio files.
- Have questions or need support? Talk to us during the 12 Live Monthly Group Coaching Calls!
- Want support from the experts? Check out the bonus workshops with Guest Experts.
- Need to see examples of how it works? Watch the “Real Life Parenting” video examples!
- Need to get your spouse on the “same page”? We’ll give you 1 Additional Partner Membership – so your spouse/partner can also participate and get questions answered!
The Blueprint Program includes digital downloads or you can live stream video through the membership website. Immediately after you register, you will receive an email with your login and password to the membership website so you can get started right away! Monthly coaching calls will be announced by email and replays will be posted in the membership website.
The Blueprint Program starts when you register for it! The bulk of the content will be released during these first two months—however you’ll have a whole year to get through the content, attend coaching calls and to get support from us and the community.
Great question! The Blueprint Program is self-paced and modules are released each week.
• Week 1: Module 1 and bonus guest workshops are available now.
• Week 2: Module 2
• Week 3: Module 3
• Week 4: Module 4
• Week 5: Module 5
• Week 6: Module 6
• Week 7: Module 7
Live coaching calls are typically on the third Thursday of the month at 1pm Pacific (that’s Los Angeles time!). Questions can also be sent to us if you can't make the call. The schedule for coaching calls will be announced after registration.
Great question! We put a lot of time and effort into our blog and free videos which offer great tips and tricks. But an interview or blog will never match the magnitude of guidance, wisdom and support you’ll get inside the Blueprint Program.
The Blueprint Program is our flagship program and it’s where we take the concepts we talk about in our emails, blog and conference and we dive deep into these concepts. It’s one thing to give you a quick tip in a video, it’s another thing to give you a series of tools, a blueprint, and then support you on your journey.
No problem! If you can’t be on live you can send us an email with your question beforehand! Plus, all of the live coaching calls are recorded and archived inside the Blueprint members-only site for easy playback or download. You can visit them over and over again at the time that is most convenient for you.
Yes! You and your family can get all the results of the program, even if your partner doesn’t participate. As you start applying the concepts from the program you will become a better communicator. By becoming more attuned to your thoughts, beliefs, feelings and energy, you are much better equipped to understand your partner and parent as a team.
The class was designed for anyone who is interested in becoming more connected with their children without the struggle. It doesn’t matter if you’ve read every parenting book on the planet or if you’re brand new to all of this. If you are ready and willing to learn and grow, you will find what you are looking for in the Blueprint Membership!
Easy! The Blueprint Program comes with a Money Back Guarantee, allowing you to participate for the entire first month without any obligation to continue. If you decide that the program isn’t right for you in the next 30 days, just let us know and we’ll refund 100% of your money!
We’ve created this class for busy parents so that the time commitment is about 10 minutes a day, or a little over an hour per week for 8 weeks. For a whole year, anytime you’ve been away from the program, you can jump into the membership site and pick up right where you left off.