Happily Family Blueprint Program + Coaching

The blueprint for more joy and connection with your kids

  • Have confidence and enjoy parenting!
  • Set healthy limits with empathy
  • Build relationship, balance, and connection without losing yourself
  • Techniques based on current brain and child development research

Steps Towards Compassionate Parenting

Key principles in the Blueprint Program


The Blueprint shows you how to compassionately deal with power struggles in daily life–during meltdowns, bedtimes, mealtimes, homework, chores and more! Replace techniques that have no long-term success–like threats, punishments, rewards, and bribes–instead use agreements, limits, and win-win situations that work... for good!


“It’s not fair!” will become a thing of the past. The Blueprint will show you how to handle sibling rivalry… from toddler to teen years. You will see when to step in and how to help multiple kids with different needs. You’ll know how to stay calm, how to handle a meltdown, hitting, or screaming. And you’ll learn how to communicate with your spouse or partner to get on the same page.


You will discover how to have healthy, compassionate boundaries. You will see when to set limits, when to draw a hard line, and when to be lenient.


You will see how to bring out the best in your child, to try their best, without resorting to rewards or consequences. You’ll know what to say to encourage your kids to have a growth mindset to keep them motivated.

Who We Are

Cecilia & Jason Hilkey , Creators of Happily Family

We are partners in our marriage, our teaching, and our parenting. We’ve developed a flexible system to communicate and connect with children, based on brain science and our professional experience.

We’ve worked with hundreds of children and families in person.  Our online programs have reached more than 500,000 people in over 200 countries.

We have over 30 years combined experience in the education and therapy fields (plus a Masters degree in Occupational Therapy, and a minor in Neurobiology). We taught together in the same classroom, and in separate classrooms, with kids from 3-12 years old. We’ve worked with children with disabilities (birth to young adult) and their families, in homes and schools.

We have a extensive knowledge about child development, psychology, mindfulness, social and emotional intelligence, and brain science. We’ve conducted over 175 interviews of parenting and education experts, authors and researchers. We’ve presented at conferences, schools and businesses in the US and abroad.

End the Struggle... Join the Tribe

  • Stuck in old behaviors and patterns? Too much fighting in your family?
  • Do you feel alone in your parenting? No community around you?
  • Do you keep trying harder, but it doesn’t seem to be making a difference?


1 Year Full Access to the Blueprint Program


$497 value

Easy to access videos, audio MP3s and cheat sheets that you can access anytime for 1 year. Each module can be streamed or downloaded as audio files.



Monthly LIVE group coaching calls with recordings available afterwards.


$100 value

Look "over our shoulder" as we handle real situations with kids in the homes of other parents.


$497 value

Additional full partner membership – so your spouse/partner can participate and get questions answered, at their own pace


$297 value

8 parenting experts present on tough topics such as anger, partnership and self-care


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Real Comments from Real People

Hundreds of people have taken the Happily Family Blueprint Program and changed their parenting

  • Truly, you have been so life changing for our family. An inspiration to how we parent. We cannot thank you enough for these gifts.

    – Rob Y.

  • I loved the clarity and simplicity of your process.

    – Jacqueline P.

  • This is the best resource for parents that I have found on what to do when the conflict erupts with kids. It is a really easy system to follow. It has made playtime with the two kiddos wonderful.

    – Christina O.

  • So simple yet so powerful. Thank you!!!!!

    – Lori S.

  • Happily Family is an amazing resource.

    – Tywana S.

  • Just filling my cup with reminders of how I want to parent and that I'm not alone in this journey, I soooo appreciate it.

    – Deanne D.

  • I already used your techniques this morning twice and it is only 9:15!

    – Sirpa K.

  • I'm loving the Blueprint class!

    – Lorianne S.

  • I grew up in an authoritarian household and wanted to try something different. Thank you for introducing me to something different.

    – Enrica S.

  • We've felt very encouraged and supported by your work. [Seeing] how you two work together has informed our marriage. Of course we were really focused on parenting and not couple–advice, but we got both!

    – Eddee K.

  • I have grandchildren and I use your wisdom and good sense to gently advise my 3 year-old grandson.

    – Meri P.

  • My kids are young adults, but I still find your advice relevant and timely.

    – Lynne Y.

  • You use the latest brain research. You are positive and affirming in your approach. You understand the limits of time outs which never worked with my grandson.

    – Candace K

  • My daughter is 11 and we have the relationship that I had always hoped for. [I used to] aimlessly react to situations. If I had continued that way there would have been a lot of guilt, shame, anger and hurt. Thank you for Happily Family. You are an oasis for me.

    – Suzanne W.

  • Working with you has changed how I relate to parenting. You are refreshing and positive. You always show me the path. Your work is so inspiring to me, without the skills and perspective you've taught me, I would have given up.

    – Heather K.

  • Now I can go to bed feeling like I’m doing a good job raising my daughter. I no longer resort to harsh, ineffective parenting practices. My whole family is functioning at a higher level & we feel closer to each other, even when times get tough. My whole family is grateful to you both!!

    – Shanna C.


What’s included in the Blueprint Program? +

  • You’ll get more peace in your family when you follow quick, easy steps in the Self-Paced Modules that you can access anytime for 1 year!
  • Need access on-the-go? Each of the modules can be viewed or downloaded as audio files.
  • Have questions or need support? Talk to us during the 12 Live Monthly Group Coaching Calls!
  • Want support from the experts? Check out the bonus workshops with Guest Experts.
  • Need to see examples of how it works? Watch the “Real Life Parenting” video examples!
  • Need to get your spouse on the “same page”? We’ll give you 1 Additional Partner Membership – so your spouse/partner can also participate and get questions answered!

How do I access the videos and coaching calls? +

The Blueprint Program includes digital downloads or you can live stream video through the membership website. Immediately after you register, you will receive an email with your login and password to the membership website so you can get started right away! Monthly coaching calls will be announced by email and replays will be posted in the membership website.

When does the Blueprint Program start and end? +

The Blueprint Program starts when you register for it! The bulk of the content will be released during these first two months—however you’ll have a whole year to get through the content, attend coaching calls and to get support from us and the community.

When is the program? +

Great question! The Blueprint Program is self-paced and modules are released each week.

• Week 1: Module 1 and bonus guest workshops are available now.
• Week 2: Module 2
• Week 3: Module 3
• Week 4: Module 4
• Week 5: Module 5
• Week 6: Module 6
• Week 7: Module 7

Live coaching calls are typically on the third Thursday of the month at 1pm Pacific (that’s Los Angeles time!). Questions can also be sent to us if you can't make the call. The schedule for coaching calls will be announced after registration.

Why not just get parenting advice for free? Can’t I just read your blog and watch your free conference? +

Great question! We put a lot of time and effort into our blog and free videos which offer great tips and tricks. But an interview or blog will never match the magnitude of guidance, wisdom and support you’ll get inside the Blueprint Program.

The Blueprint Program is our flagship program and it’s where we take the concepts we talk about in our emails, blog and conference and we dive deep into these concepts. It’s one thing to give you a quick tip in a video, it’s another thing to give you a series of tools, a blueprint, and then support you on your journey.

What if I can’t make it to the coaching calls when they’re being broadcast? +

No problem! If you can’t be on live you can send us an email with your question beforehand! Plus, all of the live coaching calls are recorded and archived inside the Blueprint members-only site for easy playback or download. You can visit them over and over again at the time that is most convenient for you.

My partner doesn’t want to be involved in the program, will it still benefit me? +

Yes! You and your family can get all the results of the program, even if your partner doesn’t participate. As you start applying the concepts from the program you will become a better communicator. By becoming more attuned to your thoughts, beliefs, feelings and energy, you are much better equipped to understand your partner and parent as a team.

Am I too new (or too experienced) for the Blueprint Program? +

The class was designed for anyone who is interested in becoming more connected with their children without the struggle. It doesn’t matter if you’ve read every parenting book on the planet or if you’re brand new to all of this. If you are ready and willing to learn and grow, you will find what you are looking for in the Blueprint Membership!

What if I jump in and realize that the program is just not a good fit for me? +

Easy! The Blueprint Program comes with a Money Back Guarantee, allowing you to participate for the entire first month without any obligation to continue. If you decide that the program isn’t right for you in the next 30 days, just let us know and we’ll refund 100% of your money!

I like the idea of this but I just feel like I’m too busy and won’t get my money’s worth? +

We’ve created this class for busy parents so that the time commitment is about 10 minutes a day, or a little over an hour per week for 8 weeks. For a whole year, anytime you’ve been away from the program, you can jump into the membership site and pick up right where you left off.


Join Now for Only $497